N\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet tona, qofshin ato personale apo profesionale, frika nga vetmia mund t\u00eb na shtyj\u00eb t\u00eb luajm\u00eb viktim\u00ebn\u2026edhe kur \u00ebsht\u00eb faji yn\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, disa shenja duket se e b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb me nj\u00eb aft\u00ebsi t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Luani<\/p>\n
Luani, i njohur p\u00ebr krenarin\u00eb dhe vet\u00ebbesimin e tij, zakonisht e mendon veten si t\u00eb pagabuesh\u00ebm. Kur p\u00ebrballet me nj\u00eb situat\u00eb ku \u00ebsht\u00eb e qart\u00eb se ai ka faj, ai shpesh p\u00ebrdor strategji p\u00ebr t\u00eb faj\u00ebsuar t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Ai p\u00ebrdor sharmin dhe retorik\u00ebn e tij p\u00ebr t\u00eb l\u00ebkundur opinionin e atyre q\u00eb e rrethojn\u00eb n\u00eb favor t\u00eb tij, duke shmangur k\u00ebshtu marrjen e p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe duke u fokusuar q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb ndjejn\u00eb se ai \u00ebsht\u00eb viktim\u00eb.<\/p>
Akrepi<\/p>\n
Akrepi, me natyr\u00ebn e tij intensive pasionante, ka aft\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb bind\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt se ai \u00ebsht\u00eb viktim\u00eb. Plag\u00ebt e tij emocionale dhe tendencat shkat\u00ebrruese shpesh e b\u00ebjn\u00eb at\u00eb t\u00eb krijoj\u00eb emocione negative rreth tij, duke shmangur k\u00ebshtu p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb personale.<\/p>\n
Peshqit<\/p>\n
Peshqit, t\u00eb njohur p\u00ebr ndjeshm\u00ebrin\u00eb dhe dhembshurin\u00eb e tyre, mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb gjithashtu shum\u00eb manipulues n\u00eb nj\u00eb nivel emocional. Ata kan\u00eb aft\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb fitojn\u00eb simpatin\u00eb e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve dhe t\u00eb paraqiten si viktima t\u00eb pafajshme, edhe kur jan\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebr situat\u00ebn. Aft\u00ebsia e tyre p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbysur realitetin dhe p\u00ebr t\u2019i penguar ata q\u00eb i rrethojn\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb karakteristik\u00eb e tyre teksa p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb rimarrin kontrollin e situat\u00ebs.<\/p>\n